Why Keeping Your Wins Private Can Shield You from Envy and Unseen Opposition

It’s human nature to share the good news you may have — perhaps you received a significant promotion, got a raise, or won the lottery. If so, you may want to let your friends and family know, thinking they’ll be authentically happy for you. It’s natural to want to celebrate your achievements and victories with people you care about. However, most people fail to consider that not everyone wants to see you win, and that’s the truth, even if they smile in your face.

It may be easy to feel comfortable and share your accomplishment, but the truth is that it’s best to move silently. Sharing one of your victories, no matter how big or small, can often instill jealousy, competition, or get you unwanted attention. As soon as someone hears your plans or sees what you have started to build momentum towards, they will begin to calculate how they can extract from you, or worse, in some cases, how they can block your blessings and your dreams. It’s typically not out of real malice but a human tendency. Envy is a slippery and insidious force that creeps in, even among those who provide support.

It does not mean you cannot be around your family and friends or keep your life secret; you must also learn discernment. Knowledge is power; know who you’re talking to and that person’s possible intentions. Not every success needs an audience; not all moments are meant to be shared with the world. Your victories are still victories, even if you celebrate your achievements privately.

To secure your peace, you need to safeguard your progress. Share only when it feels right and with those who genuinely want nothing but your success and happiness without envy or an agenda. Your accomplishments and success are sacred; protect them, nurture them responsibly, and allow them to materialize in their own time.